Matching Sexual Compatibility With a Call Girl

Sexual compatibility is a vital part of any relationship, but it can be especially tricky to gauge in a romantic partnership. This is mainly because couples have different expectations and needs when it comes to intimacy.

It’s important to communicate openly about your sexual preferences. This way, you can be sure that your partner is on the same page as you are when it comes to sexual frequency and intimacy.

1. You’re attuned to each other’s sexy signals

A big sign of sexual compatibility is when both partners are able to read and respond to each other’s sexy signals. For example, if you love to be the initiator and your partner loves to let their partner take the lead, you’ll be able to trade off and switch up who initiates on a regular basis.

It’s also important that both partners can communicate openly about their sexual needs and desires, especially if they have different things they like or dislike. “Couples who are sexually compatible feel aligned in their preferences and have ways of communicating about them effectively,” says therapist Alana Ogilvie.

However, if you prioritize emotional closeness and hope that your sex life will improve on its own over time, you might be fine not worrying so much about sexual compatibility right now. Just make sure you’re on the same page when it comes to your values, goals and future plans. This will help you maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship, regardless of where your sex lives. And it’s important that both of you are willing to keep an open mind about trying new positions and fetishes.

2. You’re comfortable giving each other instructions

When you’re sexually compatible, it means you can both communicate what turns you on and how to get there. That may seem obvious, but it’s not always easy. Especially during sexy beginnings, hormones can make it hard to think clearly or be clear about what you’re craving. Women tend to be better at communicating their needs but still struggle with it more than men do. It’s important to vocalize what you want and how you like to be touched so your partner doesn’t feel left out or resentful.

The other thing to consider is whether your libido levels are a match. It’s not uncommon for people’s libido to wax and wane due to things like age, pregnancy, medications, work stress, and health issues. The key is to find a partner whose libido will match yours so you can be intimate together without any frustration. Often, this can be done simply by having open conversations about your sexy interests and identifying what you both want from each other in terms of sexual activity.

3. You’re on the same page with PDA

There’s a popular belief that sexual compatibility is the ultimate deal-breaker in relationships. But this makes it sound like a checkbox that can be flipped on or off, when in reality, it’s a lot more complex than that.

What sexual compatibility really looks like is how well your and your partner’s needs, desires, and expectations around sex mesh. This can include how often and for how long you want to have sex, your ideal “environment” for sex, what turns you on and off, etc.

It’s also important to be on the same page when it comes to PDA (public displays of affection). For example, if you love a good public hand hold/hug/leg touch/fingernails run along the back of the neck or shoulders, but your partner hates those things, this might indicate that you’re not on the same sexual page as far as touch is concerned. Luckily, this can usually be worked out through open communication and compromise. PDA preferences can even change over time in a relationship. That’s totally normal.

4. You’re comfortable with your sexual routine

If you and your partner share the same sexual fantasies, enjoy similar bedroom positions, have aligned expectations of frequency and duration, and have a mutual outlook on sticking to a more familiar range of sexual experiences, that’s a good sign. It’s also a sign that you both understand the importance of communication when it comes to your sexual needs.

It’s important to communicate to each other about what gets you turned on and off, especially before getting intimate. Spiritual advisor and life coach Eliyahu Jian tells INSIDER that revealing these things to your significant other can be a huge indicator of your sexual compatibility. That’s because you know that your partner is respectful of your comfort levels and won’t force you to do anything you don’t want to. That’s a big deal considering how many couples struggle with sexual incompatibility because they don’t talk about what turns them on before hopping into bed together. That could lead to a lot of frustration, hurt feelings, and eventual breakups. Don’t let that happen to you! Be sure to discuss your sexual preferences with your loved one.

5. You’re craving intimacy more than any adult movies or random hookups

With the easy accessibility of adult movies and hookup-centered dating apps, it’s more common than ever for people to have casual sex. This type of sex is fun, and can be a way to vet potential partners for the future. But it’s important to remember that sexual compatibility is not the only thing that makes a relationship happy and healthy.

This can also include things like playfulness, trust, companionship, and enjoyment of each other’s company. In fact, a recent study found that almost three-quarters of couples agree that intimacy – including cuddling, kissing, and laughing together – is more important than sex in long-term relationships.

That being said, if you’re craving intimacy with your partner more than your access to the internet (and whatever other temptations might be at hand) then this is a good sign. This also means you are able to prioritize your needs and desires in a loving, respectful way with one another.